Saturday, May 19, 2012

Help Mike MacDonald



If you'd like to help Mike financially, you can donate to him at Go Fund Me.

If you'd like to pass on a message to Mike, please send me an email and I'll relay it to him.

Here's Mike's full story, as written by him:
About 14 months ago I was diagnosed as having hepatitis C. which causes severe havoc to the liver along with a domino affect of other problems.  Fortunately the diagnosis was made early and only a very small portion of my liver was damaged.  Ironically though this proved to make a liver transplant premature and traditional drug treatments without prescription coverage would be too financially burdening.  Some new drug treatments were as high as $5,000.00 a month.  I was told by my highly respected liver specialist in Ottawa that if I could maintain myself on minor medications and a low salt/protein food regimen I could be eligible for a liver transplant in two to two and a half years.

I took the news as best I could and I continued to try to earn a living performing anywhere I could in Canada--hoping and dreaming for a financial break in other side projects.  Unfortunately it was already an uphill battle.  Years ago when I went public about being bi-polar manic depressive I found that it had interfered with my reputation as a desired headlining comedian and had even prevented me from getting certain jobs.  I refused to back down despite ‘advice’ to the contrary and remain proud of the work I have done with "Stand Up For Mental Health" which at it’s core attempts to eradicate the stigma of mental illness.

The downward economic times had been slowly getting worse and now several setbacks occurred as my liver began to affect certain aspects of my performances such as; energy, concentration, balance, and even my hearing.  At one point I couldn’t perform for three months which put a humungous strain on my financial and marital situation.

Bonnie, my saint of a wife, who for years had begged me to move us back to Canada (something I should have agreed to years ago) struggled to keep us afloat and hold on to our modest home in Glendale, California.  On her two days off from her job (that doesn’t even pay to cover the mortgage) she continues to handle everything financially including our home renovations so we can hopefully sell it for a reasonable price and cut all our ties there.  I certainly wasn’t helping much on the financial end.  On one of few visits to see Bonnie over the last year I tripped over a curb and broke two ribs leading to more U.S. medical bills.  After getting us out of credit card debt finally after the last three years Bonnie reluctantly jumped back into deep debt.  My wife has been through hell and back so many times but she still hangs in there with me.  I am so profoundly proud of her and will love her with all my heart and soul forever.  Sometimes I feel like Job, from the bible, but I refuse to turn my back on God and continue every day to pledge to Bonnie that I will not give up this fight.

Thankfully over the last year with the occasional gig from Mark Breslin’s Yuk Yuk’s, my corporate agents Judy and Nancy at Callback Ent., and especially Matt Billon--who has taken chance after chance and gone with me on the road for several BlackJack Comedy Tours--I managed to send some money back to Bonnie.  Unfortunately on the last Black Jack tour in B.C. in March, which took Matt and I to these tiny little venues and places--most I had never even heard of--which was fine for me--work was work and the audiences were great--I had an "incident" on stage that was a result of a problem with my liver for some reason.  I had no idea of the symptoms leading up to the "incident" but for about a week I had experienced severe itching on my legs and I had been continually nodding off like a junkie.  Matt and I shrugged it off as just being tired performing shows--28 shows in 28 towns in 30 days.  During a performance about five days later I just flipped out on stage to the point where Matt had to pry the microphone out of my hand to stop me from repeating the set up for a joke for the umpteenth time.  I was rushed by ambulance to the hospital.  My fluids were flushed completely and I was put on heavy antibiotics.  The doctors were unsure exactly what had happened but they speculated it was some kind of liver poisoning.  I was released four days later and finished the tour on fumes and returned to Ottawa on April 1.  I had  a scheduled appointment with my liver specialist on April 11 and a airline ticket to go see Bonnie the next day back in California.

The final knock out punch for me came on April 5, around 11:00 PM.  I experienced pain in my stomach that felt like it was something trying to claw it’s way out.  I would rank it up there with my old kidney stones, migraines or any other painful experience I’ve ever had.  I was admitted into Ottawa’s General Hospital ICU unit.  I had contracted a severe infection somehow that shut down my liver which in turn shut down my kidneys.  By the end of my three week stay about 12 litres of infected fluid had been drained from my stomach and antibiotics were changed twice to combat the severity of the infection.  Without going into the many gory details--I wouldn’t wish the entire experience on my worst enemy.

Four days after being released from the hospital I had an appointment with my liver specialist to access the multitude of test results.  The news was devastating.  I was told that the recent infection that I was recovering from was so severe that I couldn’t wait two years for a liver transplant.  My specialist sent an email to Toronto (they don’t do liver transplants in Ottawa) to begin procedures to possibly get me on the cadaver liver donor list.  My specialist also told me that even though she had never had a patient die on her in this situation, it was an extremely long shot that another infection could be too strong for the antibiotics I was on and would kill me if I didn’t change my lifestyle dramatically.

From the very start of this whole thing I was not allowed to drive anymore.  Now I can’t fly and shouldn’t travel--for any great length--for work or certainly not for any frivolous reasons.  As far as performing my act--My specialist suggested I do it just in Ottawa (like it’s a 9-5 job I can show up and do it in the same place Monday through Friday).  Even for work my specialist insisted I wait for a few months pending weekly blood tests and nutrition evaluations (one of my favorites--I had to turn down Just for Laughs 30th Anniversary this year).  Bonnie--who I haven’t seen since New Year’s Eve (we talk on the phone every day--thank God for cheap cell phone plans) immediately cashed out our retirement savings plans to maintain things for a few months so we don’t lose everything.  God willing we can be reunited in Ottawa as soon as possible.

One bit of good news (I hope) I received a letter saying I have an appointment for an initial assessment to get on the donor list in Toronto on June 12.  My brother John a.k.a. Johnny Vegas will drive me.  I hope I get accepted.  I have to admit for the first time in my life I’m really afraid--What if I don’t get accepted?--How long will it take if I do?  Then there’s the guilt.  There’s more deserving people on that list than me...

One ray of hope though is my specialist told me about living donors, which could possibly be a member of my family.  Unfortunately my immediate family are all ineligible--Thus the main reason for this message but also the source of my struggle to find the right words to say.  I’ve always prided my self for never taking hand outs and being self sufficient.  At times I feel I’m going through these recent events in my life because of the sometimes unfeeling, cruel arrogance of my youth and no matter how many charity events or good things I’ve done in my life--I feel that maybe what is happening to me now is what I deserve.  I am not without sin.  Maybe it’s been so hard to write this message because I’m ashamed to ask for some thing I’m not sure I would have the courage to do myself.  Maybe it’s the thought of everyone declining to help.  In any case I just couldn’t ask like I was asking a simple favor despite any advice otherwise.  I felt you had the right to know the story behind my situation.  Simply put--I need a living donor...

You would have to be the same blood type as me:  O Negative (my specialist also mentioned something about O Positive maybe working too).  The way it was explained to me by my specialist is that a portion of your liver would replace my liver then both the portion inside of me and the rest of your liver would regenerate to full size.  The liver is one organ that is truly amazing in it’s abilities.

Obviously intent would be the first step towards tons of procedural red tape and logistics but one baby step at a time.  I know this is not a normal thing to ask but I just simply don’t know what else to do.

Thank you for reading this and God Bless you all.

Sincerely,
Mike

Saturday, February 18, 2012

ACORN Cape Breton

The Association of Community Organizations for Reform Now (ACORN) is "a union of low and moderate income families, young workers, cultural workers, assistance recipients and the rest of the 99% fighting for a better [community]."  The Cape Breton chapter of ACORN's most important goal right now is to fight for renters' rights.

As a renter myself, and having seen the deplorable condition of some of the apartments in my local area, I felt this was a cause worth supporting.  ACORN is here to help us fight to improve our living conditions, but they're is only as strong as the size of its membership.  It's vital they get the word out there; the more people who join ACORN, the greater their power to affect change.

With this episode, I'm doing my part to get the word out.

This episode is dedicated to my sister Mandy who recently suffered a personal loss.  ACORN's core message is, "you are not alone."  So too, my message to Mandy is, "you are not alone."  I'm here for you; we're all here for you.

Saturday, November 19, 2011

The Orchard Music Scam



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Saturday, November 12, 2011

Success



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Saturday, November 05, 2011

Mid-Life Crisis



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Saturday, October 29, 2011

Halloween 2011: The Raven



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Saturday, October 22, 2011

Cabot Trail in Fall



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Sunday, October 16, 2011

Food

If you're a regular visitor here, you've probably noticed that traditional "written" blog entries these days are extremely rare.  Once in a very long while I'll decide a particular topic is best handled in writing but, 99% of the time, if I have something to say I'll say it in an episode of my YouTube series The Pedaling Prince's Podium and embed it.

Well, I didn't see any reason why my Blog Action Day entry should be any exception.  With that in mind, welcome to this special Blog Action Day edition The Pedaling Prince's Podium (if you're reading this in Facebook Notes click here to watch):



If this is your first time watching The Podium, and you enjoyed it, you can watch more of the series (42 episodes and counting :)) here:



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Happy Blog Action Day! :)

Saturday, October 08, 2011

Money



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Saturday, October 01, 2011

Pain Gain



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Saturday, September 24, 2011

Life with Marie III



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Saturday, September 17, 2011

Two Rivers



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Saturday, September 10, 2011

9/11 + 10



This is a Pedaling Prince's Podium special presentation in memory of September 11, 2001.

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Saturday, September 03, 2011

Criterium



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Saturday, August 27, 2011

Happy Birthday, Marie!



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Saturday, August 20, 2011

Action Week Fireworks



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Saturday, August 13, 2011

Sound Advice




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Saturday, August 06, 2011

Jost House: A Child's Perspective



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Saturday, July 30, 2011

A Day Out



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Saturday, July 23, 2011

Jost Heritage House II



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Saturday, July 16, 2011

Welcome Home, Rob!



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Saturday, July 09, 2011

Cossit House: Tied Up in Red Tape



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I regret that the episode I had planned for today on Cossit House, the oldest standing house in Sydney, cannot be aired because Cossit House is under the authority of The Old Sydney Society which has strict rules regarding production of video and film on their property; they have asked it not be aired until it goes through "proper channels."

Now they may decide to let me air it once I go through their formal procedures; I'll keep you posted as anything develops on that front. As for this week, unfortunately I was not told about this until the last moment, I was unable to complete an alternate episode in time for this week.

So, for lack of any alternative I aired some of it but without audio and with titles superimposed explaining what happened. So, if you'd like to know more about what happened, please watch this week's episode.

If you'd like to encourage The Old Sydney Society to air my Cossit House segment, here's how you can reach them:

Sydney's Lyceum
225 George Street, Sydney, NS B1P 1J5
Phone/Fax: (902) 539-1572
Email: oldsydneysociety@ns.aliantzinc.ca

Saturday, July 02, 2011

Jost Heritage House



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Saturday, June 25, 2011

Heal the Heel



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Saturday, June 18, 2011

Going the Distance for Diabetes



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Saturday, June 11, 2011

Bike Week



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Saturday, June 04, 2011

Introduction to Triathlon



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Saturday, May 28, 2011

Life with Marie II



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Saturday, May 21, 2011

Ride of Silence



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Saturday, May 14, 2011

Saturday, May 07, 2011

Cycling Injuries and Medicine



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Saturday, April 30, 2011

Sunday, April 24, 2011

Want My Vote?

As most of you know, I am Canadian; you may also know that Canada is currently running a federal election. A little over a week ago, I sent out the following email to all the candidates in my riding:
From: John A. Ardelli <gelfling@syd.eastlink.ca>
Date: April 17, 2011 11:45:24 PM ADT
To: Cecil Clarke <cecilclarke@bellaliant.com>, Mark Eyking <Markeyking@gmail.com>, Kathy MacLeod <KathyMacLeodNDP@gmail.com>, Chris Milburn <chris.milburn@greenparty.ca>
Subject: Who to Vote For

A lot of people are disillusioned with politicians. Many people I've overheard on the street have actually said they weren't going to bother to vote because they don't think it'll make any difference regardless who gets in. I understand how they feel; I often feel that way, too. However, I also know that nothing is going to change unless we get the right person in office and that's not going to happen if we give up and stop voting altogether; we just have to know who to vote for.

So that leaves the million dollar question: how do we know who to vote for?

With all respect, I don't believe in modern politics. To me, the whole "campaign trail" thing is little more than a fancy popularity contest with the most popular candidate, rather than the best one for the job, getting in. So, myself personally, I don't see any value in all the TV and radio spots, the newspaper spots, the websites etc. They say a lot about what a candidate intends to do but little about what a candidate can do; a candidate may have all the best intentions but may, in the end, find themselves unable to fulfil their campaign promises.

In short, what I want to see is not what a candidate wants to do but what they are able to do. Whatever candidate can prove to me that they can make a difference once in office will get my vote.

So, you want to demonstrate what you're willing and able to do for people in your riding? I know someone who could use your help:

I've known Marie Stewart, my current girlfriend, for almost six years now. As I've gotten to know her over the years, I've come to realize she's one of the hardest working people I know with a lot of untapped potential, most of which is only limited by her lack of education and, as she's gotten older, physical limitations. For many years now she's been trying to better herself, to learn new skills and get into the workforce but no one seems willing or able to help her.

Marie never finished school. It's not that she wasn't willing to learn; she simply never got the guidance she needed. She has a learning disability and, upon hitting Grade Five, she hit the proverbial wall and was unable to continue. Having gotten to know her over the years I know she has tremendous potential; I've seen her grasp things, particularly how to operate new household technologies, with an ease the tech challenged would envy. Obviously she could learn more; all she needs is someone who understands how she learns with enough patience to teach her.

At the moment, her marketable skills are limited. She has extensive experience in both residential and commercial cleaning and limited experience in a retail setting but little more than that. She has made several attempts to further her education and has been stymied mostly for lack of funds; her cheque from Community Services simply will not cover any attempt to further her education. Also, although she has a firm grasp of technologies like voicemail and DVR, her knowledge of and experience with computers is very limited.

On top of that, she is 52 years old and is developing health problems. Her biggest issue is a bone spur in her heel; it makes it excruciatingly painful for her to stand for any length of time. This limits her ability to do any job, like cleaning, that requires her to be on her feet. Her doctors have told her she needs custom made footwear but such footwear would cost in excess of $300.00. She's asked Community Services for help with this but they refuse to help her except to get cheaper, pre-made shoes which her own doctors tell her are useless for her.

When she tries to improve herself she often meets with resistance, and often outright hostility, from Community Services. For example, she's been working part time at a local hotel to try to supplement her income. She's not trying to defraud the government; it's simply that her cheque, less than $900.00 a month, is not enough to cover her attempts to further herself. Yet when she talks to Community Services they treat her as if she's trying to cheat the government. No. Community Services refused to help her; now she's simply trying to help herself.

Her Community Services cheque simply isn't enough for her to pay her day to day expenses, much less help her get back on her feet. She doesn't want to stay on the cheque; she'd much rather be earning her own money but without education and computer skills and with her body betraying her, her ability to work is diminishing. If she had the proper help, the custom footwear she needs, the proper 21st Century high school education and the proper guidance, she could be a valuable asset in the workforce but she just doesn't know where to start and no one will help her.

For the past 12 years all Community Services will tell her, in a nutshell, is that she has to go through "proper channels" if she wants to improve herself, but those "channels" are designed with people with normal learning capability in mind. That's why she ends up having trouble when she takes course etc. because the courses designed for the ordinary learner and she needs special attention.

The problem is that Marie IS highly intelligent and she comes off that way when you first meet her; you can't really tell, on first meeting, she has a learning problem. That's because once she learns a new skill she can apply it as well as or better than most but it takes her longer to learn in the beginning. Ordinary educators just don't seem to know how to approach teaching her and tend to lose patience with her before she can manage to learn the skill they're trying to teach.

She wants to learn. She wants to get off her cheque, make her own money, be successful. She doesn't know where to start. I'm speaking on her behalf today because in 12 years of trying to better herself no one so far has listened, no one has been willing to help. That's why I'm asking for your help. If any of you can tell us where to begin, can get Marie the medical help she needs, help her find people that can really work with her to learn new skills, please get in touch with me (my contact information is below) or Marie Stewart herself at ***-****.

Whoever here can help us I guarantee will have my vote, no questions asked. The way I see it is if you actually find Marie the help she's been trying for so many years to find you'll have proven to me that you're a candidate who can do what they promise.

Now helping Marie is the most important thing in my life right now. However, I do have political issues of my own I'd also like to see addressed. I produce a "personal news" program on YouTube called The Pedaling Prince's Podium. Myself and Marie both have expressed a few political opinions on the show since it started airing January 1; you might find watching the following episodes interesting (and as Marie makes a personal appearance on the first of these this'll give you a chance to "meet" her, too):

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vmqi3l8ArBk
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n3qk8fhpZ-4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MduDNy3jusc
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v21STia9ij4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rbLIdKPMFYY

Comments, of course, are welcome (and may also help me decide who to vote for, or even promote on the show ;)). Also, the following playlist, updated every Saturday when a new show airs, lists every episode of the series:

http://www.youtube.com/view_play_list?p=532E63A55D3F1561

If you like the show, just put that in your bookmarks. :) Also, feel free to share it with anyone you think might want to see it.

Thank you for your attention. Please, if there's anything you can do to help, feel free to contact us any time.
So far I've only gotten a response from one candidate, and that was to point out information on their website pertaining to Marie's situation. While I appreciate the fact that this candidate at least took the time to acknowledge our plea (which is more than the other candidates have done to date) I'm constrained to point out that I said specifically in the original email that I was interested in action from the candidates, not to read information on their websites.

Not that I don't think all of the candidates have some great ideas; they do. However, as I said, there's no way to know how many of these grand, wonderful promises will actually come to fruition once the candidate is in power.

That's why I'm asking for direct assistance for Marie in this matter; the way I see it is if a candidate can actually do something to help her then that candidate will have proven to me that they are also willing and able to make good on the promises made on their party's website. So, as one candidate (you know who you are) at least responded I do appreciate that but it's action we need; we need someone to speak on Marie's behalf whom people will listen to.

Her situation is precarious; she needs immediate help. As things currently stand, she will not be getting her cheque this month; we have no idea where her rent money is going to come from when it's due. We need help finding her financial assistance, whether it be the reinstatement of her cheque, finding her a job she's physically and mentally able to do, or providing the tuition and living expenses she needs to further her education and deal with her medical issues.

So please, I'm asking once again: help us. Get in touch with us ASAP. Whoever can actually do something for her will get my vote and support 100%.

On the other hand, if no one does help, I won't vote at all. Not because I don't want to or don't care but, put simply, if somebody doesn't prove to me that they're actually able to do something to make this country a better place I'll have no idea who to vote for; I'd rather not vote at all than essentially pick randomly and hope I picked the right candidate.

So please, get in touch with us ASAP.

Time is running out.

Saturday, April 23, 2011

Sydney Harbour



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Saturday, April 16, 2011

Behind the Glass



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Tuesday, April 12, 2011

More Troll Victims

Well, it seems that onecoolchick67/billrankin316/Jessica Drinkwater is taking advantage of the anonymity of her account to attack others on YouTube besides me:
onecoolchick67 commented on Skiles Gets Sick (2 days ago)
"Nice giant nose and small mouth by the way. It sounds to me like puberty is beating the shit out of you. This is nothing more then a desperate attempt to get views on youtube, which is a complete fail by the way. Nasa should start landing shuttles on the craters in your face. Great Job! Mahalo!" less


onecoolchick67 commented on Foot Massage (5 days ago)
"damn that chick has ugly feet"



onecoolchick67 commented on Head Massage in India 2010 ... (5 days ago)
"that stupid bitch is completely annoying. i wish she would have kept her mouth shut for this video, her speech sounds like shes hacking up phelgm on every word and that laugh is horrifying" less


onecoolchick67 commented on The Cosmic Barber: Baba's I... (1 week ago)
"I like the guy hawking the loogies at 4:02 and 4:19."


Needlessly nasty at best; unconscionably uncharitable at worst.

In response, I created the following video:



(If you're reading this in Facebook notes, click here to see it.)

I've emailed that to every person above she's harassed so far and will email it to every person I catch her harassing on YouTube (or anywhere else) from this point on. I like to use The Pedaling Prince's Podium to help people when I can and this is a great opportunity to help others defend themselves against her pedomorphic pugnacity.

Stay tuned; I'll keep you all updated as this story breaks. :)

Saturday, April 09, 2011

Free Publicity!



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More from the Troll

Begin forwarded message:

From: Jessica Drinkwater
Date: April 9, 2011 2:44:37 PM ADT
To: gelfling@syd.eastlink.ca

hey john, i've been doing some research and i've discovered a few things....

(using other ppl's phone to argue with your mother), (yelling at other cyclists because
their not riding on the proper side of the road), (stalking and threatening women to the point they have
to get the police involved). Your an evil man John Archibald Ardelli and you will be exposed.
I have plenty of people giving me new information every week about you. Anyway i must
go and keep digging. Do you still go to the movie theatre for the wrestling ppv's? lol

Begin forwarded message:

From: "John A. Ardelli"
Date: April 9, 2011 4:40:42 PM ADT
To: Jessica Drinkwater
Subject: Re:

On 2011-04-09, at 2:44 PM, Jessica Drinkwater wrote:

hey john, i've been doing some research and i've discovered a few things....

Cool.

(using other ppl's phone to argue with your mother)

I have NO idea what you're talking about here as far as "other people's phone" but I argue with my mother all the time; this is not news.

(yelling at other cyclists because their not riding on the proper side of the road)

Everyone knows I do that, though I don't usually bother now; no one listens, anyway so it's kind of a waste of time.

(stalking and threatening women to the point they have to get the police involved).

I never threatened anyone but I DID pester an old girlfriend WAY too much to try to get her to talk to me. I don't deny that; the whole story is still on my blog for all to read to this day. :)

Your an evil man John Archibald Ardelli and you will be exposed.

Great! Thanks again for all your help promoting my show! Oh, and don't forget to check out this week's episode; it's all about YOU! It's kind of a thank you. I just finished rendering it and I'll be uploading it as soon as I post these emails to my blog; I'll send you a link. :)

Oh, that reminds me. If you want to put comments up under your CURRENT profile I've unblocked you. I wouldn't normally but this publicity opportunity is too good for me to pass up. :)

I have plenty of people giving me new information every week about you.

Speaking of stalking...

Do you still go to the movie theatre for the wrestling ppv's?

Not for over a year.

How come you don't know THAT, if you know so much...? :P

Anyway, once again thanks for the publicity! Make sure I get a link to this video you're planning to do so I can help YOU promote YOUR show, OK? Thanks! :)

John A. Ardelli
http://pedalingprince.blogspot.com

Thursday, April 07, 2011

Troll's Out from Under Her Bridge Again

OK. Looks like my troll is back and she isn't going anywhere.

This should be fun. :)

In short, she tried to post a comment to an episode of The Pedaling Prince's Podium under someone else's name; I've been blocking her ever since. So she emailed me under a fake name; the following exchange ensued:
Begin forwarded message:

From: Jessica Drinkwater
Date: April 5, 2011 2:49:43 PM ADT
To: gelfling@syd.eastlink.ca
Subject: hey john, i find this upsetting :(

I've been following your videos since day 1 and i'm very upset that you blocked me from commenting because i have different opinions. I'm not saying anything
out of context, or being hateful towards you. I just have a different opinion on certain subjects and its very immature of you to block anyone who doesn't agree
with what you say. It's time to grow up and realize the whole world doesnt revolve around you and people will disagree with what you say. I did infact enjoy the
video about wentworth park and of course the spring beard trim. They were kind and upbeat videos, and around here that is exactly what we need these days.
If someday your videos ever get really popular, there will be people who don't agree with you and your going to have to start blocking thousands of people so
that nobody can say anything negative and you can remain in your perfect world. I will still watch your videos every week but wish you would reconsider what
you've done to me by blocking :( If i like your particular video i will give you props on the comments for sure! but if i dont like the video i will speak my mind,
but never in a harsh way to embarass you or anything, im not that kind of person.
Begin forwarded message:

From: "John A. Ardelli"
Date: April 5, 2011 5:27:53 PM ADT
To: Jessica Drinkwater
Subject: Re: hey john, i find this upsetting :(

On 2011-04-05, at 2:49 PM, Jessica Drinkwater wrote:

I've been following your videos since day 1 and i'm very upset that you blocked me from commenting because i have different opinions.

I have no problem with differing opinions; "cooldude6373's" opinions are still up, for example. You'll also notice I didn't post your POSITIVE comment, either. I'm blocking you because you because you tried to post to my channel under someone else's name. I KNOW "billrankin316" is you. I've been working with computers since I was 12; I know how to find out these things.

So, you want your comments up? Fine; do it under your REAL handle.

I will still watch your videos every week but wish you would reconsider what you've done to me by blocking :(

Not until you tell me who you are, how you found me and can prove your identity. If you don't want the AUDIENCE to know who you are I have no problem with that; I won't PUBLISH who you are but I will KNOW who you are before you get so much as a single comment posted.

If I seem harsh, just bear in mind that the whole "billrankin316" thing really pissed me off royally; I'm not posting another comment from you until I know, 100% certain, WHO YOU ARE. Period.

John A. Ardelli
http://pedalingprince.blogspot.com

Begin forwarded message:

From: Jessica Drinkwater
Date: April 6, 2011 3:00:23 PM ADT
To: gelfling@syd.eastlink.ca

ok, that sounds fair john, so everyone else who posts comments on your videos must abide by your rules and you MUST know 100% who they are? that is the dumbest
thing i ever heard in my life. Did cooldude tell you who he was? I somehow doubt it. I've been in sydney the past couple days and i've asked around about you. The
people i was talking to didnt have very pleasant things to say. They said if they ask you anything about your bike, you will tie them up for 45 minutes just rambling
on and on about stupid things they dont want to hear about and they will politely try to get away from you. I also heard that you call the police on your neighbors if
they're making a little bit of noise. So that just means you are a coward and a rat. I'm never watching another one of your videos again, BUT, i will be making my own
videos exposing you for being the fraud you are. The people of Cape Breton must know the truth!

Begin forwarded message:

From: "John A. Ardelli"
Date: April 7, 2011 12:30:48 AM ADT
To: Jessica Drinkwater
Subject: Re:

On 2011-04-06, at 3:00 PM, Jessica Drinkwater wrote:

ok, that sounds fair john, so everyone else who posts comments on your videos must abide by your rules and you MUST know 100% who they are?

No; just you. The others didn't try to post under someone else's name like you did.

I'm never watching another one of your videos again, BUT, i will be making my own videos exposing you for being the fraud you are. The people of Cape Breton must know the truth!

Comparing the above to your previous message:

"i will speak my mind, but never in a harsh way to embarass you or anything, im not that kind of person."

And you call ME a fraud...

John A. Ardelli
http://pedalingprince.blogspot.com
I have a feeling this is going to be wildly entertaining so keep an eye on this blog; if she has anything else to say, or if she actually follows through with her threat to make videos to "expose" me I'll post it all here.

Gotta love trolls. Free publicity for The Podium! Love it! :)

Sunday, April 03, 2011

Ravaged Roads



Note to Facebook users reading my blog in Notes:

This is video post; to watch, click here.

Small but significant update on Madeline. Marie called and Madelline's sister picked up, said, "No, [Madeline]'s not [available]," and immediately hung up. This is not surprising to us; Madeline's sister has behaved like that before. Problem is, while obviously we now know Madeline's phone is still connected we still have no idea what's happened to Madeline herself.

So, once again, if anyone out there knows Madeline or her family please let her know we're looking for her; she'll certainly recognize our names and I'm sure she'll want to get in touch with us. Please email me if you can help; thanks.

Saturday, March 26, 2011

Madeline Update/Wentworth Park



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We have no idea where Madeline Bishop is right now (see the video for more details) so, once again, if anyone out there knows Madeline or her family please let her know we're looking for her; she'll certainly recognize our names and I'm sure she'll want to get in touch with us. Please email me if you can help; thanks.

Saturday, March 19, 2011

Spring Beard Trim



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This is video post; to watch, click here.

Also, although we have no news on Madeline herself, while this episode was in post-production MLA Gordie Gosse provided us with the following information on a new program for seniors that might be of benefit to her:
On March 15, the province announced $1.4 million for a Supportive Care Program that will give eligible seniors with cognitive impairment $500.00 a month for home support services.

Seniors could also be eligible to be reimbursed for up to $495.00 per year for snow removal.

Health and Wellness Minister Maureen MacDonald says the program will give low-income seniors and their caregivers greater control to organize homecare.

Seniors need to meet a number of eligibility requirements.

The program begins April 1 and will help 230 seniors annually.
As Madeline has gotten an eviction notice it remains to be seen whether this particular program will benefit her. I suppose it depends on why she was evicted (which we still don't know at this point). I suspect they simply felt she wasn't able to support herself on her own; if I'm right then this program is exactly the kind of thing we need.

The problem is we still haven't been able to reach her. Her phone is still connected; there's simply no answer. Marie tells me this is not unprecedented, though. She tells me she once disappeared for over two months only to return; she'd been in the hospital and, like this time, no one but family was being let in on what was going on.

That having been said, once again if anyone out there knows Madeline Bishop or her family and can give us a heads up on what's going on please please email me. Thanks.

Saturday, March 12, 2011

Bicycle Touring



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There's no news on Madeline; we still can't reach her. We believe she's alive as there's been no obituary but it's unlikely she's still in the hospital right now. We'd really like to know where she is and how she's doing; if you know Madeline Bishop and know anything about her whereabouts, please email me.

Saturday, March 05, 2011

Madeline Update/Time Machine Candy Works



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Also, if you're viewing this video embedded in my blog and think you can help, or know someone who can, please email me.

Saturday, February 26, 2011

Madeline - Part II



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Also, if you're viewing this video embedded in my blog and think you can help, or know someone who can, please email me.

Saturday, February 19, 2011

Madeline



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Also, if you're viewing this video embedded in my blog and think you can help, or know someone who can, please email me.

Saturday, February 12, 2011

Show Me the Money



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Saturday, February 05, 2011

Off-Season Cycling Presentations



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Saturday, January 29, 2011

Seniors Complexes



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Saturday, January 22, 2011

Velo Cape Breton Annual Potluck



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Saturday, January 15, 2011

Talkin' Trash

I apologize for the late release of this episode; YouTube uploading was having issues.

Thank you for your patience.



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Saturday, January 08, 2011

Life with Marie



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Saturday, January 01, 2011

Happy New Year!

Finally fixed the audio problem! At least now I know how to keep it from happening again for next week's episode...

Thanks for your patience.



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Tuesday, December 21, 2010

When a Child is Born

While you're all waiting for The Pedaling Prince's Podium to premiere, here's a little "Christmas Treat" for you:



For those of you who don't know I sing, check it out! For those of you who do, check out the video; that's GarageBand the application I use for all my recording and mixing. :)

This particular song will be the first track of a CD I'm producing as a Christmas gift for most people on my list (money is extremely tight this year so at least this way I can give people something personal and meaningful without breaking the proverbial bank :)).

Saturday, December 18, 2010

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Mountain Fries

Well, now that Blogspot is allowing much more flexibility in blog format I think it's time to give The Pedaling Prince a long overdue face-lift; now this is more the way I want it to look. :)

Anyway, today I'm here to talk to you about a new "chip wagon" that opened only a few days ago; it's called "Mountain Fries" and it's located in Downtown Sydney on Bentick Street across from the Bargain Shop next to Club 55:


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I usually use Bentick street on my way home from work (usually after I leave Subway) and recently as I passed I smelled the delicious smell of french fries. I followed it and found Mountain Fries.

Well, that particular day I had already eaten and was too full to try anything. I had intended to try something there this past Tuesday on my way home from work but unfortunately I got sick and was out of work for the past two days. However today, on my way home, I again smelled the intoxicating smell of cooking french fries and remembered, Oh yeah, Mountain Fries; I gotta try them out. Having already eaten a light dinner, I just had some of their french fries.

I kid you not: these were the best french fries I've ever had. Anywhere. Bar none. They were just crispy enough to have good texture yet tender enough to be just this side of melt in your mouth. They were almost (but not quite) sweet to the taste and were delightfully (and surprisingly for greasy food) satisfying to the stomach. The most impressive thing, though, was that, unlike most chip wagon fries, there was not a single burnt fry. Not one.

The most unusual feature of Mountain Fries, however, is something that I, as a person who very rarely carries physical cash, really appreciate; unlike every other chip wagon I've ever visited, they actually accept Interac direct payment, Master Card and Visa. Actually (and I'm going to have to ask them about this, out of curiosity) they also take Canadian Tire money in multiples of 25 cents. Now that is a wide variety of payment options!

Their menu is also unusually impressive for a chip wagon, even including an impressive array of options for vegetarians (all prices include tax):

Cold Sandwiches
  • Non-Toasted BLT $2.50/$3.50 (Half/Whole)
  • Turkey Salad $2.50/$3.50
  • Egg Salad $2.50/$3.50
  • Ham & Cheese $2.50/$3.50
  • Roast Beef $2.50/$3.50
  • Turkey $2.50/$3.50
  • Turkey Bacon $3.50/$4.50
  • Non-Toasted Club $3.50/$5.00
  • Tofurkey $3.50/$5.00
White, Whole Wheat & Multi Grain Breads available

Hot Sandwiches with Fries
  • Turkey $7.75
  • Roast Beef $7.75
  • Hamburg $7.75
  • Tofurkey $9.25
Fries
  • Home Cut Fries $2.75/$3.50 (Small/Large)
  • Poutine $4.50/$5.50
  • Works (Chili, Cheese, Sour Cream, Bacon, Green Onions) $4.50/$5.50
  • Veggie Works (Cheese, Sour Cream, Tomato & Green Onions) $4.50/$5.50
Hot Dogs & Hamburgers
  • Hot Dog $2.50
  • Veggie Dog $3.50
  • Hamburger $3.50
  • Cheeseburger $4.00
  • Veggie Burger $4.00
  • Veggie Cheeseburger $4.50
  • Sausage on a Bun $3.50
Soup & Chili
  • Vegetable
  • Soup of the Day
  • Chili
All soups $2.75 for small, $3.75 for large.

Besides all that they also offer:
  • Nachos $5.50
  • Veggie Nachos $5.50
  • Potato Skins $5.50
  • Corn on the Cob $2.25
  • Baked Potato
    • With Cheese $2.50
    • Sour Cream & Chives $2.50
    • Bacon/Cheese $3.25
    • Chili/Cheese $3.25
  • Extra Gravy-Brown, Turkey $1.00
  • Extra Cheese $1.00
  • Extra Bacon $1.00
  • Extra Chili $1.00
Beverages
  • Coffee/Tea $1.50
  • Pop $1.50
  • Water $1.50
  • Red Rain - 250 ml $2.75
  • red Rain - 1 lt $3.75
  • Floats $3.75
  • Flavored Drink Free
Now here's a menu section you don't ordinarily see on a chip wagon (at least around here):

Dessert
  • Jello $1.50
  • Jello Pudding $1.75
  • Jumbo Freezie $1.50
  • Popcorn $3.00
  • Cotton Candy $3.00
  • Ice Cream Cone $2.00/$3.25 (small/large)
  • Sundaes, $3.50/4.50; available flavors:
    1. Butterscotch
    2. Chocolate
    3. Strawberry
    4. Blueberry
    5. Cherry
Both sundaes and ice creams are nut and gluten free.

Finally, Mountain Fries even has its own "house specialty" dessert:

Mountain Tracks $5.00
  • Deep Fried Dough
  • Whipped Cream
  • Chocolate Syrup
  • Maraschino Cherry
It's available in all the same flavors as the sundaes are. It doesn't sound particularly healthy I'll admit but, then again, neither is your average fast food burger, either. Chip wagon food is like any fast food; it's about taste, not nutrition. Even so, the fact that they're trying so hard to cater to the vegetarian market actually does render their overall menu significantly healthier than the average chip wagon's.

If those fries I had today are any indication, and given the absolutely astonishing variety on their menu, this place is destined to become the best chip wagon in town!

I'm going to continue to try out items from their menu every day or two and, each time I try something, I'll report back here about it. So keep an eye on this blog for further reports! :)

Wednesday, June 02, 2010

Pharisee Back in the Saddle

On December 7, 2008, Riin Gill's rabbit Rudy died. I wanted to express my condolences but wasn't sure if I should. I asked my friends; they all agreed I should. This was unusual on two levels. One, most times my friends would recommend I avoid contact with her; this time they actually thought it was a good idea. Two, every one of my friends agreed; usually, I would get differing opinions. So I wrote a simple note of condolence; we all thought she'd appreciate it.

Four days later, she castigated me publicly on her blog for my act of kindness. In doing so she snapped me back to my senses because in that moment I realized that, despite appearances to the contrary she so carefully cultivated in the public eye, she has no concept of compassion. The woman I'd fallen in love with was at best an illusion, at worst a lie. I haven't written a posting about Riin since that day and I thought I never would again; there was nothing left to say.

Until now.

The fact is, I still have my own regrets. Riin may have been manipulative, selfish and sometimes cruel but I was not blameless; I made my share of mistakes, too. Most of them I've long since made peace with but one regret I've carried with me all these years was the fact that my influence drove her off the saddle of her bike.

I try to encourage people to cycle, not discourage them. My opinion of her personally notwithstanding, it always bothered me that I was part of the reason she gave cycling up. It bothered me so much that initially I desperately tried to get people she knew to talk her out of giving it up. I realize now I had no business doing that but at the time I was in a desperate state of mind and felt like I had to do something; that was all I could think to do.

However, I eventually realized there was nothing I could do to get her back in the saddle if she didn't want to go. This is the only thing about Riin I still feel pangs of regret about to this day. I always thought this would be a cross I'd have to bear for the rest of my life. It's been almost three years since she last rode; I figured, if she hadn't gotten back to it by now, she never will.

I don't check her blog very often anymore. Once in a very long while I'll think of it and poke my head in just out of curiosity. Well I did that a few days ago and discovered a posting she made almost a month ago. "Punk Pin Cushion on Wheels." Hm. She still has her predilection for whimsical titles, it seems. I was skimming it when the second paragraph, a simple four word sentence, caught my eye: "I rode my bike."

Most of the time I honestly don't care anymore what Riin Gill does (which is why I check her blog so rarely) but this, I must admit, I am genuinely happy to hear. I suppose I'll still feel some regret for the three years she spent off the saddle but at least, in the end, she got back on, and every time anyone puts their butt on a bicycle seat (especially one who actually knows what they're doing in traffic, as Riin always did), well, that's always good news.

As I expected, she took several swipes at me in the entry. To her credit, however, she did not call me a "stalker" for a change; she called me "controlling." Well you know what? That charge I'll plead guilty to. I've always been like that; it's something I learned growing up. Every single member of my family, in one way or another, was controlling and manipulative. Not that they're bad people; it's just that, like me, they grew up with that behavior and thought it was normal.

However, in the interim, I've learned to recognize this flaw in my character and, like my homophobia of my younger days, I've fought hard to change it. In fact, it was my breakups with Riin, and later Lisa, that finally shook me to my senses and made me realize this was a flaw in my character that I had to deal with.

This is something I still struggle with. I still feel the urge to be controlling, particularly when I think someone I love is going to get hurt. However, most of the time now I work out my urge to control in fantasy or in writing rather than actually trying to control the person. Like my homophobia, which is now totally a thing of the past, I hope I'll eventually not even have these controlling urges but, for now, I just have to watch myself and make sure I don't act on them.

Now the question that I can't help but ask myself is this: is the fact that Riin is going back to cycling a sign that maybe she's starting to learn from her mistakes as I have?

I can't know for sure but somehow I doubt it. Her biggest problem, by far, is her lack of compassion; it's been my experience that if you haven't learned compassion by the time you're 30 or so you never do. Also, as her friend M pointed out, Riin can't admit to making mistakes in the first place; it's hard to learn from mistakes if you don't acknowledge them.

This is unfortunate. Riin does have it in her to be a better person. Though she does not feel compassion she understands the concept at an intellectual level which suggests that perhaps she could learn it if she wanted to. The problem is in order to be truly compassionate she'd also have to learn self-sacrifice, the concept of accepting some personal discomfort for the benefit of someone you love; this is something that is beyond her comprehension.

There have been many times in my life when I have accepted significant personal suffering, occasionally even risks to friendships, even my physical safety, to protect the people I love; that is the essence of compassion.

The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition defines "compassion" as, "Deep awareness of the suffering of another coupled with the wish to relieve it." Riin does have a "deep awareness" of the suffering of others but she lacks conviction in her "wish to relieve it." She'll help you if it doesn't cause her any difficulty but the moment it causes her even the slightest pain she instantly turns her back on you.

I was in deep trouble in my relationship with Lisa and didn't realize it. Now, it wasn't Riin's responsibility to get me out of that (she couldn't help me if I wasn't prepared to help myself which, at that time, I wasn't), but it was her responsibility, as my lover and my friend, to tell me the truth about the trouble she could see me in. Surely she must've seen it; she even witnessed Lisa assaulting me with her own two eyes on more than one occasion.

She didn't want to tell me the truth because I had always said Lisa and I were a "package deal," that she'd have to accept both of us or neither of us. Now of course that meant that telling me the truth about what Lisa was doing would've risked our relationship, yes, but if she really cared about me she would've taken that risk; when you really love someone, it's their happiness, not your own, that's the priority but, to Riin, everything is about what makes her happy, not others.

In the end we lost the relationship, anyway, because Riin and I would never have worked if Lisa had stayed in the picture. If Riin had had the courage to say that to me it probably would have caused us pain in the short term but, in the long run, I think we would have come out stronger and survived but, to do that, Riin would have had to experience true compassion; she would have had to truly understand how I felt and loved me enough to take that risk.

Actually, now that I think about it, the best thing Riin could've done was to say, "I'm leaving you unless you leave Lisa." She had a right to do that. I was choosing to stay in an abusive situation; that didn't mean she had to. Chances are saying that would've ended our relationship in the short term but, in the long run, when I finally hit bottom and lost Lisa (which was inevitable anyway) Riin could have been there to help me pick up the pieces.

Does that mean she should've sacrificed her happiness entirely? No, of course not; like I said, getting away from Lisa and I was, in the short term, the right choice on her part. It was the fact that, in the end, she abandoned me completely that demonstrates her total lack of understanding of what "compassion" means. If you're unwilling to accept any suffering, or take any risk, to help someone then you don't truly understand what compassion truly is.

Or at least that's the way it seems to me, looking back on it. Could I be wrong? Could Riin be genuinely compassionate somewhere deep in her heart but, because of some emotional baggage I don't know about, is simply averse to taking the risk she might get hurt helping someone?

Maybe.

I always try to keep an open mind. I have learned from my mistakes. I'm not totally dismissing the possibility that Riin may have, too; it's just hard for me to believe. I have to admit, if Riin actually dropped me a line tomorrow and said, "I'd like to find out where we both went wrong," I'd be willing to have a dialogue with her. At the very least it'd give me the opportunity to apologize, perhaps even atone, for some of the mistakes I made.

Of course, in order to do that, Riin would have to have enough compassion to recognize that I might, in fact, have learned from my mistakes in the past three years... so I don't foresee Riin seeking me out any time soon...

Yeah... that's probably for the best...

Well. It seems she can still stir a little emotion in me when she talks about me, even after all this time; I went way off on an unintended tangent here. I guess I really do love her. Well, the illusion of what I thought she was, anyway.

Either way, my thoughts and feelings about her notwithstanding, I am genuinely happy to see the only cyclist I ever knocked out of the saddle back in the saddle again.

I genuinely wish her luck.

Sunday, May 16, 2010

Lonnie's Vlog!

A friend of mine, Lonnie L. Jones, apparently inspired by other vloggers (including myself I'd imagine ;)), has started a video blog of his own! Here's his first posting:



It started with Jon Paula who inspired me to start a video blog and now it's inspiring my friends to start them; have I started a trend here...? ;)